Well
@Nightmare2125, it may be true I don't leave my channel too often, but that's because I'm completely open to people poking me and I don't want to seem like "that guy" who stalks everybody, entering other channels when not invited. Although when needed, I am more than happy to help where I can. Lately I haven't been able to do all that much due to needing to take care of my mother. But to actually be useful in this post and to try helping the community, I have a suggestion.
Why is it that we don't advertise on other medias like reddit or tumblr? We can't expect people to see the server, join it and stay there. There are way too many servers for us to bank on the Gmod server list. If we want to see more people on servers and in a community, we need to reach out. We should get some reddit posts going, a tumblr page, an Endless Networks twitter page and/or Facebook page. We need to reach out to others who are looking for servers and try and convince them that we are what they are looking for.
Of course, this is my opinion. I could be wrong and this may not help at all but if you want change, and you want an effort, I say we try this. This may grant us more players and if there's a possibility of that, why not try? We lost people after the merge and you all are right, we will continue to lose people. Everything has a shelf life, including communities and servers. If you guys want to see an extended shelf life of this community, then we need to reach out.
(This is all my opinion from what I've seen work. Thank you for taking your time to read this and I hope you all have a nice day)
~Siberian