I'm sorry to hear that you have had a bad experience of sharing games. It is really immature and disgusting on your boyfriend's part for doing such an insane thing like this.There was a very similar thread a while back that I posted in and as I explained there, here is a short scoop of why I don't lend physical copies of games anymore - when I was younger, one of my old bf's, decided to destroy my discs by carving into them with a knife after I dumped him
I never lent anybody a console though... that's just way too pricey to lend around. You really should be careful what you lend. If something bad happens or it breaks, it will ruin your relationship with your friend.
But when it comes to the digital lending of the games, then I am all for it since nobody can actually break those. I share my Steam library with my boyfriend and a great feature that Steam has. Together, we have SO many amazing games.
I totally disagree about sharing. I used to share my games earlier on but however some people never returned my games. I spent so much money on buying some of those games but unfortunately I won't get to see those games ever again.Meh, I don't like sharing personally. It's my property, it's my loss when it gets damaged by careless borrowers. If they want to play the game, I'd suggest they buy their own. Trades are also an option but with the wrong crowd they won't even honor that type of arrangement.
I can totally understand your point and this was how I used to think earlier on. I used to share my games with my friends. However, I had a bad experience with some friends. I lent them some games which they never returned to me.I'm not possessive with anything, in fact, I like to share games with my friends. We are good friends, and I give them...they give me back and so on. Why would I keep a game only for myself? It is better to share and play games with friends all the time, playing alone is boring!
Besides, whats a friend for?
There was a very similar thread a while back that I posted in and as I explained there, here is a short scoop of why I don't lend physical copies of games anymore - when I was younger, one of my old bf's, decided to destroy my discs by carving into them with a knife after I dumped him
I never lent anybody a console though... that's just way too pricey to lend around. You really should be careful what you lend. If something bad happens or it breaks, it will ruin your relationship with your friend.
But when it comes to the digital lending of the games, then I am all for it since nobody can actually break those. I share my Steam library with my boyfriend and a great feature that Steam has. Together, we have SO many amazing games.
Haha. Thanks, man. A game, any game whatsoever, is best enjoyed when played with or against others. I often even solicit for players who will be good opponents for me.I can very well relate to you in this aspect. My doors are open for lending my games as well as my console but to only those who respect me and my stuff
That was a good one. At first I thought that you are actually very possessive of your stuff. But I'm happy that you are also a person who believes in sharing and multiplying the fun.
Anyways it was a nice way of replying. Lol
Yes, it is always the fear of damage that can be caused by others which holds us back. All of us welcome this procedure of exchanging games but the so called " just in case" factor pops in.Haha. Thanks, man. A game, any game whatsoever, is best enjoyed when played with or against others. I often even solicit for players who will be good opponents for me.
It's only when it comes to lending out the game that I'm a bit possessive. This is because I fear they will rough-handle it. However, my guys know better than to do this when they borrow it.
Agreed. To his defense, we were still very young and when you're a teenager and you just got dumped, you do stupid things. We never really talked after he did that thoughThat was a bad experience, but still, in a gaming world we should share and let know about our different perspective on various games out there. Playing and learning together as gamers are always fun. I hope that you will have some real experiences in future so that you can trust with your gamer friends.
I agree with you Jonathan, the truth is that people are careless when it came to other people's stuffs so I prefer to keep my things safe and Not put them at risk especialy when they are expencive, Cause I think I can be really mad! So to keep the coolness Let's notinclude lending stuffs like thatWell, to begin, I don't lend out games nor the consoles they belong too. I keep my machines and physical gaming copies in excellent condition. Unfortunately, people don't take care of their own stuff, let alone other peoples valuables. Because of this, I only trade and sell my gaming titles and accessories to the console itself.
Regarding your question, no, I'm not possessive for games (or anything in general). Though I do have certain items I claim for myself solely (like anyone should) that I want to keep in a particular condition. Because of that, not everyone has access to these items. It's not being possessive or selfish, we're just all entitled to our own possessions, to be honest.
Awww... I don't know whether it was good or bad to charge money for lending games to friends.At the moment I don't share any games since I download them online and store them on my accounts. When I used to have CDs my friends would borrow them constantly, I would just charge them like a couple of cents per day. I made some good money as a kid from loaning the games I finished out.
Well, the older ones I used to loan for free but they had to pay money for the newer ones. Simply because the games were new and I didn't have time to play them through meant they had to pay a little, they were taking time away from me. Anyway, I'm sure less than a dollar for a month of playing wasn't the worst deal ever for their parents. In fact, I think they actually liked the deal since they didn't have to buy their kids new games.Awww... I don't know whether it was good or bad to charge money for lending games to friends.
Well every person has his own outlook and I completely respect yours. But still, I of I was there in your place I would have never charged anything for sharing my games. It is a simple give and take relationship for me.